What you see may not be what you get

We all look for beautiful partners in our lives.

While the definition of beauty is very subjective and lies in the eyes of the beholder, it is also true that some attributes of beauty are appreciated by a larger portion of humanity than others.

Now here is the thing, people who are good-looking or have great bodies in the social sense of things, also know it. Remember meeting a beautiful woman and realizing whatever compliment you give her is already cliche?

So the point is people with beautiful bodies or looks are already aware of it. Now they are not only beautiful naturally but also because they pay attention to maintaining themselves, whether it is investment in physical fitness or cosmetics or some other form of self-care.

This means they know their worth, have been validated highly by society, and know they are in demand. All these factors lead to a high ego.

More often than not, such people don’t know how to please others, but themselves. This is where the catch is, a very beautiful partner may not be good in bed, because physical intimacy is a lot about giving pleasure, not just receiving it.

So it seems very good-looking people may not be a good partners in bed after all. You may not get what you see after all.

So does that mean settling for an average-looking partner, you ask? Well as with anything there is no guarantee that they won’t have a high ego or self-centered approach to life. However great looks can lead to self cantered approach easily, so while there are no formulas, look for someone who is reciprocating, whether it is physical or emotional intimacy reciprocation is the key.